He Who Has His Own Light Makes One Who Is In Darkness Uncomfortable

Having your own light is enjoying good self-esteem and being proud of who we are.  It means to aspire strongly the reality that surrounds us. In addition, it is also knowing how to give happiness to others.

After all, life is not that complicated. If we stop clinging to materialism, selfishness and avoid, in turn, depending excessively on other people, we will be freer and more authentic to live fully.

Now … what do we mean by being in the dark? There are those who spend half their lives locked in that dimension. In it, envies, resentments and resentments towards others cause them not to be happy.

And we must be careful because, sometimes,  dark people can turn off lights. Let’s reflect on it today.

The importance of having your own light

Nobody should give you their light, people have to learn to cultivate our own lights, solving those possible darkness that life brings us from time to time. To get to have its own light it is necessary to have assumed and integrated all these aspects:

• Learn that we are unique and authentic people. Everything you are and what you have achieved identifies you and should make you proud.

• Yesterday’s mistakes or failures are not obscurities to hide or to be ashamed of. They are lived experiences that enrich the life cycle. They are facts from which we have learned and which we have assumed.

• Having light also means knowing how to cultivate reciprocity. We know ourselves and we are empathic with others. In this way, we understand their sorrows and rejoice in their joys. And we never hesitate to help or serve those who need us. This happens because all this is part of our identity and enriches us.

Taking on all these aspects undoubtedly requires time and inner balance. Sometimes life doesn’t treat us very well. The past of traumatic family relationships, damaging emotional relationships or having to go through an illness create many darkness in the heart.

But, believe it or not, no one is born with their own light. Light, luck and happiness are built every day,  being aware that we deserve to get excited again. And also, knowing that we deserve to smile again and rise up strengthened from adversity.

Also read: Don’t let others drag you into their own storms

Protect ourselves from people who are turning off lights

There are those who are turning off lights through their negativism. This refers to their ability to make us believe that we are not capable or deserving of certain things.

If we do not have good self-esteem, we will end up suffering from these types of attacks, especially if they come from people who are significant to us.

Take note of what we must do to confront these behaviors and continue to conserve our own light.

Ignore

It is very possible that those people with darkness are relatives, and even a co-worker. Instead of getting angry or confronting them, it is best to ignore them.

Understand that behind these behaviors there is sometimes a low self-concept,  therefore, we have to understand their limitations and know that they are not like us.

Accept them for what they are, accept yourself and ignore.

Stay away from the drama

Do you know many people who are addicted to drama? They are those kinds of personalities who create their own storms and cry when it rains.

They like to carry out victimhood, manipulation and magnify any little detail to take it to their land and start endless dramas. It is a dangerous thing to stay away from.

Surround yourself with people who also have their own light

Strengthen your relationships with friends, relatives and partners who have your same values ​​and who enrich you. Life is knowing how to accept that we are not all the same, so the important thing is not to hurt each other.

The people you care about are the ones who make you happy, from whom you learn … They will be your vitamin against those who seek to turn off other people’s lights.

Cultivate a sense of humor

Life is happiness and happiness is, above all, joy. There is no weapon more powerful than a sense of humor: it cheers hearts and dismounts those who bring darkness.

It is often said that only intelligent people are capable of enjoying a good sense of humor. So apply it in your day to day and relativize tensions, illuminate your life with laughter and defeat those who want to turn off your light.

In conclusion, we have to accept that in this life we ​​are going to know and we are going to have to surround ourselves with very complex people. We cannot change them or force them to see the world from the same point of view as we do.

We have to respect, accept and take care of ourselves to avoid being affected. As long as we have those special and authentic people from our closest personal circle, no one will turn off that own light.